He gutsily approached some investors for money to pre-pay for the printing of thousands of copies. Things looked promising. People magazine had decided to run a piece on him and a TV station in New York wanted to interview him. While there, the TV show bumped him last-minute. Discouraged but determined, he arrived at a bookstore that night for a book signing. Right after that, he learned the People magazine article was postponed indefinitely. In despair, he poured out his soul to God: You gave me just enough rope to hang myself.
Richard arrived home that evening physically and emotionally exhausted. How did it go? Richard picked himself up and went into work the next day. While there he received a call from People magazine. The rest is history. How much do you care about your dream? Fight for it! The year before The Christmas Box became a household name, Richard attended the Mountains and Plains Booksellers Conference which gave writers the chance to meet agents.
Discouraged, he got up and asked one of the organizers where the agents were. She pointed him to Hall B. In the auditorium, there was a group of famous authors on the stage—people like Mary Higgins Clark and John Grisham sat at a table flanked by agents. Take the seat. How much do you care about your dreams?
You want to be with the big leagues? Richard knew he had put everything into that book.
He went back to his small table, gathered a box of his books, and went and sat down in that very seat on the stage—as if he belonged there. May I get you some water? He then proceeded to sign and give his book to every major literary agent who walked down the line. A year later his photo was on the program of the same Mountains and Plains Booksellers Conference, only this time he had a seat reserved for him on the stage.
Wait a minute. You did it! Have you ever tried something and failed miserably? Did you give up or did you keep going?
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Did you try again, and again, and again? This concept is true.
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Watch a child learning to walk. They are adorable—but they fall so many times. They stink at walking.
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But they keep picking themselves back up and trying again. And again. They are called toddlers because they toddle and fall. My children got so many bumps and bruises at that age because they fell. But each time, they tried again.
Learn a lesson from Richard and from toddlers. Keep going. Your first try at anything is probably going to stink. But that is okay. It is your first try. Pick yourself up and keep going. That is a lot of refining, tweaking, and polishing. As I visited with her on the phone, I found she was the most incredible, kind, capable and loving person. By the time I hung up, I felt I had made a new best friend. Having now attended several author training events, I marvel time and time again at the staff who make each event possible. He has an incredible agent, publishing team, social media expert, and assistant.
He is open to suggestions, ideas and help from the people he knows and trusts. In fact, I have even seen him write down different ideas others share at each training. Each of us has strengths and weaknesses. How great it is to work hand in hand with people who have differing skills and abilities and to learn from those who may know more than we do. Richard Paul Evans has experienced success in writing because he writes from the heart—often about hard experiences.
Sometimes life is dark, awful, and heart-wrenching. You can feel the truth shining through. It is not hard to read Richard Paul Evans books and draw the connection to the charity he founded in It is an emergency shelter for abused, neglected, or homeless children or youth. I often watch world events and feel powerless to change anything, but I have learned even little gifts of time and reaching out can begin a ripple effect which can impact lives for good.
The Tribe is also encouraging men to protect, not hurt, their loved ones. In the tribe we protect women and children and are working to abolish domestic abuse. There are problems all around us. Little by little we can change the world my giving a little bit of our time to help and serve those around us. Uncertainty magnifies the stress of waiting, while feedback in the form of expected wait times and explanations for delays improves the tenor of the experience.
And beating expectations buoys our mood. All else being equal, people who wait less than they anticipated leave happier than those who wait longer than expected. This is why Disney, the universally acknowledged master of applied queuing psychology, overestimates wait times for rides, so that its guests — never customers, always guests — are pleasantly surprised when they ascend Space Mountain ahead of schedule.
View all New York Times newsletters. This is a powerful ploy because our memories of a queuing experience, to use an industry term, are strongly influenced by the final moments, according to research conducted by Ziv Carmon, a professor of marketing at the business school Insead, and the behavioral economist Daniel Kahneman. When a long wait ends on a happy note — the line speeds up, say — we tend to look back on it positively, even if we were miserable much of the time. Conversely, if negative emotions dominate in the final minutes, our retrospective audit of the process will skew toward cynicism, even if the experience as a whole was relatively painless.
Given a choice between a slow-moving short line and a fast-moving long one, we will often opt for the former, even if the waits are identical.
This is why Disney hides the lengths of its lines by wrapping them around buildings and using serpentine queues. Perhaps the biggest influence on our feelings about lines, though, has to do with our perception of fairness. When it comes to lines, the universally acknowledged standard is first come first served: any deviation is, to most, a mark of iniquity and can lead to violent queue rage. The demand for fairness extends beyond mere self-interest. Like any social system, lines are governed by an implicit set of norms that transcend the individual. Surveys show that many people will wait twice as long for fast food, provided the establishment uses a first-come-first-served, single-queue ordering system as opposed to a multi-queue setup.
While losing to the line at our left drives us to despair, winning the race against the one to our right does little to lift our spirits. The more valuable it is, the longer one is willing to wait for it. Hence the supermarket express line, a rare, socially sanctioned violation of first come first served, based on the assumption that no reasonable person thinks a child buying a candy bar should wait behind an old man stocking up on provisions for the Mayan apocalypse.
Americans spend roughly 37 billion hours each year waiting in line. The last thing we want to do with our dwindling leisure time is squander it in stasis. And when all else fails, bring a book. Tell us what you think. Please upgrade your browser. See next articles. Newsletter Sign Up Continue reading the main story Please verify you're not a robot by clicking the box.
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